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Tiger Woods’ mother was the inspiration behind his Sunday red

Golf sensation Tiger Woods, left, poses with his mother Kultida while holding his trophy and key to a new car after winning the Asian Honda Classic in Bangkok, Thailand, Sunday, Feb. 9, 1997
Tiger Woods has called his mother his ‘biggest fan’ and ‘greatest supporter’ - AP/Charles Dharapak

A mark of the impact Kultida Woods forged on the record-breaking career of her son, Tiger, was provided by the fact the US President led the tributes after the 80-year-old unexpectedly died on Tuesday morning.

Like everyone who met her at tournaments, Donald Trump could not have failed to be struck by the mother’s importance, and not simply in her role as matriarch.

Tida, as everyone in the game and beyond knew her, did not command the spotlight in the manner of former husband Earl – the late veteran of the Vietnam war who, with his special services training oversaw and largely guided the rise of the Tiger icon.

But she was a constant presence in the background and her contribution towards the astonishing ripping up of the ancient game’s record books (not to mention the demolition of so many barriers) should not be underestimated, especially in the year after Earl’s death in 2006.

Naturally, Woods mentioned the Thai’s influence in his poignant announcement on social media. “My Mom was a force of nature all her own, her spirit was simply undeniable,” he wrote. “She was quick with the needle and a laugh. She was my biggest fan, greatest supporter, without her none of my personal achievements would have been possible.”

Tiger Woods and his mother Kultida pose with the U.S. Open trophy on the 18th green June 18, 2000 at Pebble Beach, CA. Woods became the first player in the 106-year history of the U.S. Open to finish the 72 holes at double digits under par with a 12 under par score. His 15-stroke victory not only shattered the Open mark of 11 strokes under par set by Willie Smith in 1899, but was the largest ever in a major championship
Woods’ mother was a strong presence at his tournaments, including at his 2000 US Open victory at Pebble Beach (pictured) - Getty Images/Mike Fiala

Last year, Woods explained her significance in the garlanded storyline. “My mom doesn’t get enough credit,” Woods said when accepting a lifetime award at the US Open. “Everyone thought that it was my dad when I went on the road, which it was, but Mom was at home. If you don’t know, Mom has been there my entire life. She’s always been there through thick and thin.”

It was apt that she was at the SoFi Center near to Tiger’s South Florida mansion last week, to watch his TGL team play against Rory McIlroy’s trio. Tiger shouted to Tida in the stands, “Hey mom, I promise not to suck this time” and although the indoor simulation league is nobody’s idea of a pressurised arena, she would have enjoyed his subsequent victory.

Tida had been there for so many, most notably perhaps when he achieved one of sport’s greatest comebacks at the 2019 Masters. Together with her grandchildren – Charlie and Sam – she hugged Woods in a touching family scene that in front of the cameras offered some redemption from the sex scandal which tore apart his world 10 years before.

April 14, 2019 - Tiger Woods of the U.S. Tiger Woods embraces his son Charlie Axel as his mother Kultida Woods (L), daughter Sam Alexis and girlfriend Erica Herman (R) look on after he won the 2019 Masters
Tida Woods was there for Tiger’s greatest triumph – his 2019 Masters victory - Reuters/Mike Segar

Tida was also there in the front row in the room where Tiger, live on TV, delivered his excruciating mea culpa and she also helped pick up and mend the pieces following his arrest for DUI and his other issues in a fraught decade.

Tiger Woods, hugs his mother, Kultida Woods, during a news conference, Friday, Feb. 19, 2010, in Ponte Vedra Beach, Fla.
Tida Woods was also there for her son’s lowest public moment in 2010 - AP/Eric Gay

Tida would often be present when Woods reappeared in competition, and was always a warm and generous figure who would have a friendly word with a familiar face. However, there was also the occasional barb that withered the odd journalist who she believed had overstepped the mark.

Yet there was far more than merely the protective motherly instinct or simply being who Woods called his “rock”. He has always been quick to highlight the unique home environment that assisted in an unprecedented development that in 1997, a year when he won at Augusta by eight strokes and so become the Masters’s youngest winner.

If Earl was the bad cop, challenging the boy at every turn to express his superiority as an athlete not just between the shoulder blades but more notably between the ears, Tida was the calm but tough confidante, ready to provide wise counsel as well as pluck any sign of ego.

A young Woods with his father and mother in 1990
A young Tiger Woods with his father and mother in 1990 - Getty Images/Ken Levine

A practising Buddhist, Woods credits Tida’s religion with teaching him breathing exercises from the faith that helped keep him in the moment. She introduced Tiger to the fundamentals of mindfulness and meditation at a young age, instilling in him a sense of inner balance.

Woods affectionately called her “the enforcer” and revealed it was Tida who invariably performed the hard yards, shuttling him to many of his junior tournaments. Yet maybe her most famous endowment to the legend was that she gave him the idea of using red as his “power colour” for those last rounds on a Sunday.

At just 5ft, wearing her wide-brimmed hat, she was a hugely respected figure. Her personal history as a secretary at a Thailand military base where she first met Earl, there on secondment as a green beret in the US Army, only added to her allure and the family’s mystique.

“She was loved by so many,  but especially by her two grandchildren, Sam and Charlie,” Woods said. “Thank you all for your support, prayers and privacy at this difficult time for me and my family. Love you Mom.”